It is possible to determine the readiness of a partner for intimacy not only by the state of his penis. An erection is not always visible, but it is often important for a woman to be aware of what she likes. It is easy to understand that a man got aroused easily and by other often not so direct signs.
Non-verbal signals
Willingly or not, a man by external manifestations of behavior and reactions of the body shows his interest in an object of the opposite sex. Non-verbal messages from a partner will help to understand his condition and readiness for sexual intercourse. Often the repetition of actions speaks of his desire. This "mirroring" is a clear symptom of passion and desire for a closer relationship.
When communicating, a man who is seized by passion will try to come closer, reduce the distance to the object of desire, and this action is performed automatically without awareness. Further, he will try to touch the woman with his hand or foot, make bodily contact, but this does not mean that the excited partner will develop an offensive without observing the rules of decency.
The contact will be rather casual, light, without obsession, but the excitement that a man experiences during such contact is clearly felt. A woman understands that this behavior is not accidental, seeing the persistence and a certain nervousness of human behavior.
It is also important to record external manifestations in a man's behavior. At the moment of excitement, he tries to straighten his shoulders, draw in his stomach, present his figure in a favorable light. Often, due to excitement, the partner begins to lick his lips, grab his chin, nose or ears with his fingers, which is also typical for women.
Signs of a man's arousal, manifested non-verbally, can be reduced to a small list of features of his behavior:
- an excited man tries to please a woman - to move a chair, open a door, help carry something or serve;
- he seeks to reduce the distance in communication;
- during a conversation, a man tries to make light bodily contact;
- a man, burning with passion for a woman, does his best to be alone with her more often.
Poses of a man
The need to show sexual attraction in implicit ways was born in an era of strict rules and regulations, when the attitude to the intimate process was tabooed by moral codes and church standards. Both the man and the woman needed to demonstrate to their partner a willingness to take action without fear of publicity and public censure. It was in such cases that non-verbal signals made it possible to learn about likes and desires.
To want a woman and not show her it is wrong, from the point of view of a normal man. Therefore, a potential partner, unconsciously or unconsciously, tries to demonstrate to the object of desire his interest through sexual gestures and postures.
The man shows most of the gestures and postures at the reflex level without realizing their sexual orientation towards the woman. Some of them clearly indicate interest, others are more hidden and are read only by a girl who is ready for contact.
When a man sees an attractive woman, he involuntarily begins to give out an "alpha male". He denotes readiness for sexual intercourse with confident postures and showing a high tone of the physical state of his own body. This is usually seen in the following manifestations:
- the man straightens his back and straightens his shoulders;
- tries to draw in the stomach deeper;
- if a man is standing, his legs are shoulder-width apart, showing special stability and a strong position;
- it is also important to track the position of the socks of the man's shoes, if he is interested in any attractive person, then they will be directed to this woman;
- if a man sits on a chair, he will involuntarily spread his legs, thus, as if demonstrating his own genitals, ready for mating.
The involuntary postures and gestures of a man who wants to take possession of a woman he likes often resemble the behavior of male monkeys during rutting and mating games, which indicates the common roots of primates and humans.
The excited man begins to straighten his clothes and hair in the hope of attracting the woman's attention with his appearance. Instead of an angular and heavy gait, he moves swiftly, like an athlete, while correcting figure flaws, straightening up and removing his stomach. A shine appears in the eyes, the skin on the face is automatically tightened, and bags under the eyes disappear by themselves. In general, passion makes a person much younger and really more desirable for a friend.
Now such a gesture is rarely used, and many have already forgotten about it, but even fifty years ago, thumbs placed behind a trouser belt meant a rude, ostentatious action towards a woman, aimed at demonstrating their own genitals.
The delay in the man's gaze on the object of his lust says a lot. When he looks a woman in the eyes a little longer than the rules of decency dictate, this indicates his excitement and readiness for closer contact.
The location of the hands on the hips shows a woman the physical superiority of a man over other rivals, his power and strength, and therefore his readiness to procreate.
It is interesting that women are more sensitive to manifestations of male attention and quickly notice all the tricks of a possible partner, while a guy may not understand the sympathy shown to him by the girl for a long time.
Physical manifestations
The state of arousal in a man is manifested not only by an erection of the penis, but also by other, often not so obvious, physiological signs.
A man, subject to passion, often straightens the details of his clothes, loosens the tie knot, which literally begins to strangle him. Breathing becomes rhythmic, the timbre of the voice can change to a lower one, the look becomes clouded, the pulse quickens, blood pressure jumps. Features of behavior during this period are very difficult to hide from prying attention, and even more so from the object of desire - a woman catches such signs instantly and consciously takes note.
A man can be aroused not only by direct manifestations of a woman's sexuality, but also by obsessive thoughts about intimacy. The coming wave of passion captures the partner, and his behavior changes depending on temperament and hormonal levels. General signs of erotic stress are the physiological indicators listed above, which, in terms of symptoms, resemble a stressful state. In addition to rapid breathing and heartbeat, changes in voice and pressure, increased muscle tone occurs, the pupils dilate, and increased salivation is noted.
During an erection, a clear fluid is released from the penis, which does not contain sperm, but is a kind of lubricant that allows you to penetrate the woman's vagina without much effort. It rises along the walls of the urethra and remains on the head of the penis in the form of a drop.
The grease comes from the Cooper's glands and contains various enzymes. This clear liquid is designed to serve several functions:
- it removes the remains of urine in the urethra;
- the alkaline composition of the lubricant neutralizes the acidic environment of the woman's vagina;
- the viscous consistency of the lubricant allows you to prepare the urethra for the release of semen;
- the lubricant allows you to perform frictions during intercourse without injuring the delicate skin.
The amount of lubricant depends on the individual characteristics of a man's body and can range from one small droplet to 5 ml. The main purpose of excreting this fluid is to provide a favorable environment for conceiving a child. Neutralizing the acidic atmosphere of the vagina is necessary to increase the survival rate of active sperm.
The main sign of a man's sexual arousal is an erection of the penis. Due to the increased blood supply to the penis, the cavernous bodies are filled with plasma, and the size of the organ increases markedly in length and width.
The change in the size of the penis in an erect state from the usual one depends on the individual characteristics of the man's body, but it has been noticed that a small penis enlarges more noticeably than a more impressive organ.
The erect penis becomes hard and elastic, which ensures its penetration into the woman's vagina, the man at this time is already completely ready for coitus and passion flares up even more.
During penetration into the bosom of a woman, the man's body is even more involved in the process of sexual intercourse. The heart rate increases, the muscle tension reaches its limit, the pressure rises even higher
and it becomes almost impossible to restrain passion.
The culmination of sexual intercourse for a man is ejaculation, followed by orgasm. The pleasure lasts 5-10 seconds and occurs due to the contraction of the smooth muscles of the prostate gland while pushing through the urethra seminal fluid filled with millions of sperm.
A man during orgasm can make abrupt sounds and moans. The volume of semen depends on the constitution of the person and the duration of abstinence.